{"id":748,"date":"2017-04-15T11:13:48","date_gmt":"2017-04-15T16:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/?p=748"},"modified":"2017-04-15T11:13:48","modified_gmt":"2017-04-15T16:13:48","slug":"land-mines-or-land-marks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/index.php\/2017\/04\/15\/land-mines-or-land-marks\/","title":{"rendered":"Land Mines or Land Marks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-749 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Stepping_On_Landmine__291w.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"243\" height=\"250\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<h6>At this stage in life you have learned to pretty much recognize \u201cLand Mines,\u201d having stepped on them a number of times and managed to come out wounded but not destroyed. Land mines are those nasty little bombs buried just beneath the surface of the ground; you don\u2019t know you\u2019ve stepped on until you hear the little click. By then it is too late. You can\u2019t take that step back. You know when you remove your foot that the next thing you are going to hear is boom\u2026but you think to yourself, that maybe your body will survive the impact. That is the question. Hundreds of thoughts run through your mind in just a few seconds\u2026 \u201cWhy did I take this path? Why didn\u2019t I listen to so and so and go the other way? This\u2019s it, I\u2019m done for.?\u201d Then your reasoning kicks in. \u201cWell, if I jump with lightning speed, maybe I will clear it, before it explodes.\u201d Your heart races, your whole body jerks with fear, sweat pours from your body as if a bucket of water has been poured over you and you know this is a no win situation.<\/h6>\n<h6>Life is like that\u2026somehow you manage to get through all the hurt and pain and survive vowing never to do that again.<\/h6>\n<h6>Then there are the \u201cLand Marks\u201d in life. Those life events that are important to you. People, places, things, you recognize.<\/h6>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-750\" src=\"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/media_gallery-2016-10-21-8-statue_820417_960_720_1c18bdf7357626190303694fe32e88ab-300x224.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/media_gallery-2016-10-21-8-statue_820417_960_720_1c18bdf7357626190303694fe32e88ab-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/media_gallery-2016-10-21-8-statue_820417_960_720_1c18bdf7357626190303694fe32e88ab-80x60.jpg 80w, https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/media_gallery-2016-10-21-8-statue_820417_960_720_1c18bdf7357626190303694fe32e88ab.jpg 630w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6>You\u2019re young you meet the love of your life and you marry. That\u2019s one land mark.<\/h6>\n<h6>Then, your children arrive, that\u2019s another land mark.<\/h6>\n<h6>Just when you can\u2019t decide what your true purpose in life is, you come to discover you\u2019ve been chosen for that much sought after dream job\u2026this land mark, takes you to a whole new level of desires and realms you never imagined.<\/h6>\n<h6>Money is no longer an issue. You have the prestige of being the CEO of your own company. You\u2019re a world traveler. Your family is thriving but\u2026<\/h6>\n<h6>But between the land mines, and land marks, you discover something is missing\u2026<\/h6>\n<h6>You begin to wonder about all those times you heard your mother praying for you, alone in her room; her words begin to haunt you in your dreams which become nightmares. The kids are unhappy. Your marriage is falling apart and all the glamour and fame you thought was the answer to all your problems begin to wear you out. Now all you want is to find some peace. You have stepped on a land mine and didn\u2019t even know it.<\/h6>\n<h6>You start to ask yourself\u2026\u201cWhy am I really here? What is my true purpose? If I jump quickly, maybe I will land safe from the explosive device that is about to take me out.\u201d And then you remember the words of your mother\u2026<\/h6>\n<h6>Trust God in all things\u2026<\/h6>\n<h6><strong>Proverbs 3:5-12 The Message (MSG)<\/strong><\/h6>\n<h6>Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don\u2019t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God\u2019s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he\u2019s the one who will keep you on track. Don\u2019t assume that you know it all. Run to God! Run from evil! Your body will glow with health, your very bones will vibrate with life! Honor God with everything you own; give him the first and the best. Your barns will burst, your wine vats will brim over. But don\u2019t, dear friend, resent God\u2019s discipline; don\u2019t sulk under his loving correction. It\u2019s the child he loves that God corrects; a father\u2019s delight is behind all this.<\/h6>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-751\" src=\"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image_1460982507_91-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image_1460982507_91-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image_1460982507_91-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image_1460982507_91-700x466.jpg 700w, https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image_1460982507_91-800x532.jpg 800w, https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image_1460982507_91.jpg 848w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h6 style=\"text-align: right;\">&#8211;Marla Shaw O&#8217;Neill April 15, 2017<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At this stage in life you have learned to pretty much recognize \u201cLand Mines,\u201d having stepped on them a number of times and managed to come out wounded but not destroyed. 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