{"id":161,"date":"2017-02-13T11:19:12","date_gmt":"2017-02-13T16:19:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/?p=161"},"modified":"2018-02-13T12:59:04","modified_gmt":"2018-02-13T17:59:04","slug":"161","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/becourageousbebold.com\/index.php\/2017\/02\/13\/161\/","title":{"rendered":"Yesterday, Today and Forever"},"content":{"rendered":"

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In the final years of my sweet mama\u2019s life she lived alone but she was not alone. She had family and friends that would visit and she had a sweet sister-in-law, Rose, that would visit her and when Rose couldn\u2019t visit, she\u2019d write beautiful poems and stories and mail them to mama. You see even though my mama was dying because of cancer she lived her faith in God in every detail of her life. She was not play-acting, and she was not fake.<\/p>\n

My mama had a first-hand encounter with the Living God.\u00a0\u00a0That in her 83 years, He had proven to her time and time again, that He is, who He says He Is. Not a fantasy. He is real and she knew she was going Home to be with Him.<\/p>\n

Mama and Rose didn\u2019t have much use for \u201cmodern technology,\u201d the personal touch was much more important that \u201ce\u201d mailing. Hearing their voices over the telephone were more real because you could actually hear, the emotion and know exactly how each other felt.\u00a0There was minimal chance of misunderstanding and if there was you could fix it right then.\u00a0Of course, face to face contact, is always best. Not virtual contact. Physical contact.<\/p>\n

These two precious ladies shared a lifetime of memories together. Mama sat by herself many days remembering her childhood, her mama and her family, who are now gone on to heaven except for one. She\u2019d reminisce about her children and grandchildren and great grands and pray for them day and night. Mama was taught that praying was important and that God answers prayer. Mama and Rose had these things in common.<\/p>\n

Today, I sit alone, like mama, and wonder about what else she must have felt in those final years. I know a whole lot of her time was spent praying and reading the Words of her heavenly Father. Yes, she was by herself, but she was not alone.<\/p>\n

Mama and Rose were from the \u201cold school,\u201d when life was simple but not without hardship or challenges. They were born in the thirties. It was a time before millennial, there\u2019s a word I\u2019ve recently heard, replacing \u201cbaby boomers\u201d I guess. Theirs was a time where neighbors waved at each other and when meeting on the street or in a market would say, \u201cHow do?\u201d When you needed help people actually came to your aid. They didn\u2019t have much money but there was lots of love and compassion for others. There were porch swings, which swung in the evenings, picnics on Saturday\u2019s. Baked apple pie shared between neighbors, stories, tall tales,\u00a0about the big fish that got away, gatherings\u00a0at barber shops and over back yard gates,\u00a0lots of children playing hide- n-seek in the neighborhood. They’d\u00a0catch lightning bugs when dusk fell and the familiar voices of mama or papa yelling, ” It’s supper-time,\u00a0y’all come in now.”<\/p>\n

It was a time when women taught their girls to sew and cross-stitch and embroidery. And men taught their sons to respect women and authority and that your word is your bond.<\/p>\n

Yes, times have changed. People were more about family than the instant messages flashed on cell phones of who is killing who with words and weapons across the world\u2026more important than bashing people and promoting hate and more important than the latest fashions in Hollywood and rising stars who fizzle out in just a few short years, and certainly more important than entrainment\u00a0such as sex, and pornography, murder and lies that are displayed constantly across the television screens and technical devises we spend every ninety minutes checking. Idols of the “modern age.”<\/p>\n

Yes the \u201cGood ole days.\u201d Days long gone. My mama\u2019s generation is dying out but their values and standards still hold true. Why, because they are based on God’s word and His Love. Here’s the thing, if we don\u2019t teach our children these values and if we don\u2019t live the way God teaches us to live, then our world is doomed. I was taught not to lie. I was taught to respect my elders. I was taught that life is precious. I was taught that God is not a curse word. And that God is Holy.<\/p>\n

Mama is gone now and I miss her more and more each day. One day I\u2019ll be gone too; and the day will come when you will also be gone. What legacy will you leave behind? Will the world you leave behind remember that you made it better because you were here? Will your life be remembered that you passed on what was right from wrong? Even in this \u201cmodern age\u201d of technology and in the media of the rampant ravings of madmen, and mad-women? You can still be the difference. Cell phones\u2026instant messages\u2026apps\u2026at least now you can send positive uplifting images and well wishes and God\u2019s word and yes, respect, instantly. Let those be the kinds of messages you send. But remember a hand shake or a hug or a smile felt physically, is still the best way ever to communicate!!<\/p>\n

Make your mama proud\u2026Do Good!<\/p>\n

And when you are old sitting by yourself you may feel alone\u2026but you are not alone! Times change, but God is the same yesterday, today and forever\u2026when all is said and done, listen to that still small voice he’s calling, “Come home now, it’s supper-time.”<\/p>\n

Let your life be lived so bright, that when the lights go out, you will still be shinning! You never know who is watching and is learning from you’re example.<\/p>\n

God bless you!<\/p>\n

–Marla Shaw O\u2019Neill February 13, 2017<\/p>\n

Hebrews 13:1-8 New Living Translation (NLT)<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Concluding Words<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Keep on loving each other as brothers and sisters. Don\u2019t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it! Remember those in prison, as if you were there yourself. Remember also those being mistreated, as if you felt their pain in your own bodies.<\/em><\/p>\n

Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God has said,<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cI will never fail you. I will never abandon you.\u201d So we can say with confidence, \u201cThe Lord is my helper, so I will have no fear. What can mere people do to me?\u201d Remember your leaders who taught you the word of God. Think of all the good that has come from their lives, and follow the example of their faith. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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